Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.  Proverbs 13:12

Saturday, May 24, 2008

Locks of Love

Today had an unexpected surprise.  Good things come to those who wait, I've heard.  So, in this time of waiting, I have decided to savor every minute and to try to be a better person each day than the day before.  Even with the best intentions, it isn't always easy.

I have been getting a cold and feeling lousy for the last three days.  Instead of going anywhere this holiday weekend I decided to stay home and rest and (ideally) pack some of the things in my house for the big move.  Then, yesterday my realtor called and said the people buying my house wanted to come back again to check everything out.  I tried like mad to keep them from coming--I just wanted to be sick and complaining and miserable (poor me, right?) without an audience--but, alas, I caved.  I've been frustrated the last week or so with the buyers of my house and the sellers of my new house.  The buyers have been harping on some very small things, and the sellers have been refusing some very big things.  I finally just stopped and thought--who is giving into me?  I am doing for the buyers, I am sucking up the sellers won't dos...So, in an effort to not take my frustrations out on those around me, I decided to get out of the house.  I called and confirmed an appointment with my buddy Jane, hair extraordinaire.

Next thing I knew I was in the chair and Jane was cutting 10 inch sections of my hair to send to Locks of Love.  The best part was one of the third graders from my school, "O", was there and she cut off one of the four pony tails of hair.  I had felt so achy and tired and, after deciding to donate my hair, my spirits just perked right up.  Medicine for the soul.  And, also, a reminder that I need to worry less about who is doing for me and concentrate on what I can do for others.



The agency sent the bi-weekly update on referrals...there were three girl referrals since the last update.  How wonderful for those children to be matched with their forever families!  My number remains #18 as far as I can tell-I have to wait for my monthly call the first Wednesday of the month to find out my new number.  Right now, I am grateful for the time waiting, doors that I never knew existed seem to open every time I take a step.   I look forward to discovering the next one.

Locks of Love is a public non-profit organization that provides hairpieces to financially disadvantaged children in the United States and Canada under age 18 suffering from long-term medical hair loss from any diagnosis. They meet a unique need for children by using donated hair to create the highest quality hair prosthetics. Most of the children helped by Locks of Love have lost their hair due to a medical condition called alopecia areata, which has no known cause or cure. The prostheses they provide help to restore their self-esteem and their confidence, enabling them to face the world and their peers.  
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7 comments:

Jocelyn Zarr '86 said...

Locks of Love!! WOW, that is an amazing idea! i cant wait to see you haricut, too!!! What a lovely thing to do; dont worry miss- everthing is going to turn out wonderfully; its hard, i know to wait; but cherish it if you can because you ARE pregnant on paper and later on it will seem like the time moved faster than it feels like now! so keep it up with the positive outlook; you are doing SO WELL; we are all waiting with you love j

Michael and Michelle said...

Thank you for your uplifting comment on our blog!
This is an exciting journey we are on!
You need to post a picture of your new hair.

Michelle

The Gresham Clan said...

Good job - I love Locks of Love! How exciting that you're #18... I'm praying it keeps moving along quickly :)!

Kristin

Pamela said...

First of all...SORRY FOR NOT CHECKING OUT YOUR BLOG on a regular basis and FOR NOT CALLING. I've been super-overwhelmed with new dossier requirements. My bad...so sorry.

Next...OMG! You cut your hair? Bought a house? What else?

I'll be givin' you a call this weekend to get the skinny.

Pamela

C said...

I love locks of love, I have donated hair a couple of times, it feels great to help others!Well I am Christin and my husband and I are adopting from Ethiopia and we are using AGCI

Michelle Riggs said...

What a wonderful thing to do!

SLC said...

That's great! You are such an amazing person in so many ways. We need to see a close up picture of the new 'do. ;-)

So...what's next?

Below is an overview of an Ethiopian adoption process from the time my agency receives adoptive parents' completed dossier and home study.

Agency Sends Dossier for Authentication and Translation Check!
Agency will forward adoptive parents’ dossier to the U.S. State Department and the Ethiopian Embassy for authentication. Once processed, the agency will forward the dossier to our staff in Ethiopia where it is translated

Referral Process Check!
Once the dossier is in Ethiopia, adoptive parents can wait six to eight months for a referral of a child. Once referred, the agency will send the adoptive parents referral photos, medical information and the child’s background information, including any known family history. Upon acceptance of referral, the agency's foreign staff will submit adoptive parents’ dossier, with the referred child’s documentation to the Ministry of Women’s Affairs (MOWA).

Ministry of Women’s Affairs (MOWA) Reviews Documentation Check!
MOWA is the branch of the Ethiopian government that reviews all documentation submitted by the adoptive parents and on behalf of the referred child recommends the adoption to be finalized to the Federal Court of Addis Ababa.

Federal Court Date November 11, 2008 Check!
Once MOWA recommends the adoption to be finalized, a court appointment is scheduled. At this appointment, the judge can either finalize the adoption or ask for further documentation and set another court date. Once the adoption is finalized, the court decree, new birth certificate and passport are issued, and the adoptive parents can travel.

Travel December 6, 2008 - December 11, 2008
Adoptive parents should be ready to travel within two to four months after accepting a referral. One parent is required to travel and the in-country stay in Ethiopia is five to seven days. During this time, adoptive parents will complete the U.S. Embassy Immigration appointment for the adopted child, which is necessary to bring the child to the United States. The agency's in-country staff will accompany each family throughout their entire stay in Ethiopia.

Post-Adoption- Until the child turns 18 years old In Process
In Ethiopia, an adoption is finalized before entrance into the United States. Upon arrival, post-adoption reports are due at three, six, and 12 months on the anniversary of the U.S. Embassy appointment date. After the first year, family authored self reports are due every year until the child reaches 18 years of age.