Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.  Proverbs 13:12

Friday, February 27, 2009

Sitina's First Tooth and Other Notable Accomplishments


Mark Twain said, " Adam and Eve had many advantages but the principle one was escaping teething."  In the cutest little mouth on the lower right, a teeny, tiny jagged tooth is peaking through the gum line.  As a rule, S already uses her mouth to  inspect every little thing.  Now, she is less exploratory as she only puts things in her mouth that soothe.  My finger, a cracker, the dog's paw, the couch.  She isn't very particular as long as it makes her feel better.  Her definition of soothe differs a bit from mine.  I tried to get a photo but I may very well need a macro lens to capture this miniature piece of dentin and enamel with fully intact nerve vessels!  She is a trooper, though, biting and chewing all of her solid food.  I think I hear a quiet sigh of satisfaction and relief, however, when breakfast is a soft mushy oatmeal and applesauce blend.   I will try my best to capture it on film.

Other tidbits:

Sitina celebrated her Papa's birthday with the whole family.  Here she is with the whole group and with her cousin, Jack.  They adore each other.


She went to her first luncheon with the top secret FAAP cohort.  Mama's been a member with Aunties Della, Kimberly, Jen, Roxanne and Sandy for a few years now.  


She had her nine month doctor visit and got a stellar report!  Growing perfectly for her age, weight, height.  YAY!

She had to get blood work done and it was HORRIBLE!  Her veins were nowhere to be found and the phlebotomist just kept digging in her little arm.  Finally my mother (who went to be my support) and I (who was supposed to be S's support) looked at each other and said, STOP! No blood work today.  Or maybe ever.  We'll see...

She goes next week for a few hours of trial day care.  I have planned every minute while she is there so I don't cry the whole time.

My friend, Jane (below), is as smitten with S and S is with her.  Sitina just jumps out of her skin when she sees Jane.  It is too adorable.


The folks at school had a lovely meet and greet for her last week.  It was so nice and people continue to be entirely too generous.  Still writing thank you notes and grateful for the love and kindness she has received from so many.  Props to Brigid for making the cakes.

The painting we brought home from Addis Ababa is finally framed and hanging in our family room.  I love how it turned out.  My mother chose the perfect frame--she has quite the eye.


She posed in front of the Obama painting at the Portrait Museum in Washington, causing many a bulb to flash.  This little girl brings lots of attention wherever we go!


7 comments:

Jana said...

ok, so I remember looking at the picture!!!! We brought one home and have yet to frame it. Your little lady is really too much, so beautiful!! BTW, teething is always made better by Motrin:)

Jocie Z ROCK said...

i never saw her tooth today!! i am so sad! Tuesday will be the day for that! So sorry about the bloodwork nightmare-horrible i know , but never fear zara is right there with you; still never had it- just like you hinted! Love the Popa dinner party pics! So nice! xoxox love j

JonesEthiopia said...

She is such a doll baby! So beautiful and happy. You are one lucky mama!

Jocelyn Zarr '86 said...

good luck at work tomorrow, i will be thinking of you both! joce

Meade family adoption said...

Sitina is gowing up so fast. She's so darn cute!!!!!!

Eastiopians said...

Your daughter is absolutely beautiful and so happy! Congrats to you guys!

Theresa

Eastiopians said...

I would love to know more about your Ethiopian painting....is this one from the Italian restaurant that some people recommend saving up for? If so, how much should we save to purchase such an amazing painting and does it come as a rolled canvas in a tube for travel? I would love love love to come home with a painting.

Theresa

So...what's next?

Below is an overview of an Ethiopian adoption process from the time my agency receives adoptive parents' completed dossier and home study.

Agency Sends Dossier for Authentication and Translation Check!
Agency will forward adoptive parents’ dossier to the U.S. State Department and the Ethiopian Embassy for authentication. Once processed, the agency will forward the dossier to our staff in Ethiopia where it is translated

Referral Process Check!
Once the dossier is in Ethiopia, adoptive parents can wait six to eight months for a referral of a child. Once referred, the agency will send the adoptive parents referral photos, medical information and the child’s background information, including any known family history. Upon acceptance of referral, the agency's foreign staff will submit adoptive parents’ dossier, with the referred child’s documentation to the Ministry of Women’s Affairs (MOWA).

Ministry of Women’s Affairs (MOWA) Reviews Documentation Check!
MOWA is the branch of the Ethiopian government that reviews all documentation submitted by the adoptive parents and on behalf of the referred child recommends the adoption to be finalized to the Federal Court of Addis Ababa.

Federal Court Date November 11, 2008 Check!
Once MOWA recommends the adoption to be finalized, a court appointment is scheduled. At this appointment, the judge can either finalize the adoption or ask for further documentation and set another court date. Once the adoption is finalized, the court decree, new birth certificate and passport are issued, and the adoptive parents can travel.

Travel December 6, 2008 - December 11, 2008
Adoptive parents should be ready to travel within two to four months after accepting a referral. One parent is required to travel and the in-country stay in Ethiopia is five to seven days. During this time, adoptive parents will complete the U.S. Embassy Immigration appointment for the adopted child, which is necessary to bring the child to the United States. The agency's in-country staff will accompany each family throughout their entire stay in Ethiopia.

Post-Adoption- Until the child turns 18 years old In Process
In Ethiopia, an adoption is finalized before entrance into the United States. Upon arrival, post-adoption reports are due at three, six, and 12 months on the anniversary of the U.S. Embassy appointment date. After the first year, family authored self reports are due every year until the child reaches 18 years of age.